Sockman's just mad because he can't get past Maiden in Kara.
But seriously, I've never 'grinded' for '99999' hours for any item. The fact that you claim that's all the game is shows that you really don't know much about it. Especially since you play on private servers, where half of the quests don't work, and the instances and real content don't work. What you're essentially doing is grinding for more time than any of us legit players have for items that we get for doing one or two simple quests. Who's the ___got now?